Why always me?

Today after long time broke a spell and ventured into badminton after about a year.....as usual i was cornered with the other three being experts. I am not complaining....I know that anything needs lot of practice and nothing comes free......but be it cooking or technical expertise or even the simplest of things like opening a door I am always cornered.....I am always the clumsy one.....why? Is there not one thing where I am on top of the game. I maybe thing that my brain never functions or fails to think or rather I have trained my brain such that it has huge inertia. Maybe I have not yet discovered what comes to me naturally. Anyway whatever it is I just have one relief from all stresses of this grown up life.....Music......I really am thankful that I could listen to compositions from the maestro illayaraja and now the voice of his son yuvan. I am now totally into film music and it runs in my mind all the time.....This is also one of my problems....In anything that I venture I really get stuck and too involved....always being optimal and balanced is the best.....Hope I improve towards a more balanced life and mind.

Human mind-Hard to comprehend what goes in

Back once again. This week was better than the last one, except maybe for Friday.....in any case not as worse as last week. For most part of the week, I felt that my mind was like still water. The main reason was listening to music and songs with great meaning. There were few lines that really made a huge impact on me.

"When you walk in the dark your own shadow deserts you. You are the only company for yourself and this loneliness accompanies you until you become one with fire"

"Everything in this world is temporary and we all wait until we reach the shores fighting each and every day"

very true. I am not being philosophical and forgetting to do my duties. This just helps me to overcome my emotional instability.

Frankly I am contended with life till now and would be happy to see the shores.

Music...what a godly thing...it can heal your mind. As saints say this body is just an instrument or machine and you have to be the skillful programmer and program it properly...else it behaves like "shit in, hit out". Of course, the human system is much more complex to understand and can't be compared to a stupid machine.

For me human beings and human world is very complex at this point of time...It could also be because I have not yet got out from my childhood and student life....still can’t figure out what to speak, when to speak, what is right, what is wrong and so on......Can't blame others. For everyone around me life is normal....So I am the misfit here. No one likes misfits.....even mathematics :-)......Hope I am perceived by everyone around me as a normal person.

Saturday-A day to treasure

Its Saturday....I always love Friday night and Saturday. Its a time where you can reflect on yourself,calm yourself down and get ready for the battle once again. I say that it is a treasure because it goes very quickly and takes 6 days to come again. After a really depressing Friday, music and movies on Friday night was a diversion. Saturday gave me time to think of my problems and the evening outing with a good friend of mine,food changed my mood for the good. I sometimes feel that my problems are compounded by lack of proper diet during the day and to some extent uneven sleeping schedules. I have to find a balance between personal life and work. I have been saying this for long but unfortunately I am not able to. I have clearly identified my problems. They are fear of dealing with people,fear of my actions or self confidence and being too sensitive. I also think that I build up problems in my mind which are imaginary. Also I am in phases where I am either too depressed or too enthusiastic. This could be also because of me being too sensitive. Psychological problems can only be solved if I have a strong will......I hope things will improve....have to. Human mind and emotions are very complex to understand,at least for me. One more thing is that I have developed an interest for singing...just in the past week. Maybe activities like these can also help.

At this point,I have to always thing that morning will be better as said my Kamal Hassan in Vetaiyadu Velaiyadu

In Retrospect

Hi

Finally devoid of any friends in this wretched grown up life,I decided to turn to the ever welcoming internet and computer. I though it might be a good idea to start spitting my feelings. This would be some sort of emotional outlet. To begin, I feel this grown up life is totally fucked up....Sorry for the language. People can say "Buddy u don't know to live"......I don't give a shit. As far as I have seen people just are behind money and their selfish interests. Even for a simple interaction with someone you have to think a lot. It's also very hard to understand grown up people. Everything was simple when I was a small boy.....Friend's and other relations really made sense......When you grow up you have to safeguard yourself every minute. Is seems to me as if I am in a battle everyday. Yes, I do agree I have everything in life and to an extent I thank 'God' as defined by me and my parents.What I need the most I don't have- Peace of mind....Life has changed a LOT...Some aspects for good and some bad. Can I sustain this world......Frankly, if I have a choice, I would leave from this world happily,for I think life is no longer a fun. Undoubtedly 2010 was the best year of my life. Rudyard Kipling said it right.

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same

Karthikeyan Kannan